tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post4836694606570552686..comments2023-07-02T06:19:04.721-07:00Comments on MissBudgetBaby: The Mummy MafiaMissBudgetBeautyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13070044327895385433noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-83169803804301506572012-12-05T14:25:02.897-08:002012-12-05T14:25:02.897-08:00Very energetic blog, I liked that bit. Will there ...Very energetic blog, I liked that bit. Will there be part Two? <br /><br />http://got2game.com/content/penis-enlargement-cosmetic-plastic-surgery-pre-and-post<br /><br />http://podcast.mines-nantes.fr/groups/demopu2012/wiki/0d452/penis_device.htmlbuy sizegeneticshttp://buysizegeneticsonline.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-56858988161550477842012-05-09T23:44:53.509-07:002012-05-09T23:44:53.509-07:00I agree with a lot of what you say and yes, if I a...I agree with a lot of what you say and yes, if I actually see anyone hurting my kids I will deal with it, which did happen one time in a soft play centre.<br />My little boy was about 2 and just toddling around on a mat when a boy of approx 4 ran over to him and pushed him, so he went flying!!<br />I told him "Not to do that" and asked him to bring me to his mum.<br />He did and when I told her what he'd just done, she told him off proper!!!And yes I enjoyed seeing him being told off...<br /><br />My kids are 4 and 6 and I guess what I'm saying is, that at 6 kids are "rude" (according to themselves..) to eachother one day and best friends the next day.<br />They cant really distinguish between what's really serious and not so serious, coz it all seems very important to them in their little world.<br /><br />With regards to people judging you, I say if you feel safe in the knowledge that you're both good parents who provide for your kids (which I believe you are having followed your blog for a little while :-) ) dont worry about others..<br /><br />Can I also add that I used to stand alone in the playground, not because I didnt want to speak to anyone, but because I didnt really know many of the parents, as I work shifts and dont drop/pick up the kids as often as my husband and the childminder.<br /><br />Keep and open mind and dont assume, apart from the obvious snobs etc there can be many reasons why people stick to themselves (especially in the playground....)<br /><br />Keep up the good work!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-59980857071668801472012-05-09T06:20:42.888-07:002012-05-09T06:20:42.888-07:00Always good to hear from the other side but my mai...Always good to hear from the other side but my main issue after this happened was the fact that the girls parents completely blanked me. Yes I was out of line speaking to her alone but if someone did that to my child I would have something to say to them. For me their silence speaks volumes. Although I went about expressing it in the wrong way they really have nothing to say in their daughters defence. She's horrid!<br /><br />To put my behaviour in to another context imagine you see another child kick or hit your child in front of you with their parents not around. Are you telling me you wouldn't say a word to that kid? It would take everything I had not to beat the crap out of them myself and while I know that's not the PC thing to say I know I'm not the only one that feels this way!<br /><br />Oh and to give you and idea of how the older Mums spoke to me prior to the incident.. one asked me who I lived with - I'm 26 and married with 2 children.. who do you think I live with??? And another asked my husband if he had a job!! We do both look young but seriously where we live it's like The Stepford Wives.. they don't understand how you can possibly have children in your 20s and not be destitute or still living at home.<br /><br />I'm sure you can imagine how infuriating that could be!MissBudgetBeautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13070044327895385433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-9908135810452114582012-05-09T05:56:42.696-07:002012-05-09T05:56:42.696-07:00I'm a mum pushing forty and I think the school...I'm a mum pushing forty and I think the school ground politics (by the adults I mean) can be tricky at their best, what I will say though-if you do have a problem with a child always go to the parents!<br />I wouldn't appreciate my son or daughter being told off by another parent, unless that person was in charge of them at the time.<br />As the other parents did not know the history leading up to you telling off the child, they might just think you're hysterical and that's why they're keeping their distance now??<br />One of the positives of being an older mum I find is, that we've already established our circle of friends and we talk to a large variety of parents in the school, I find the younger ones very "cliquy" and I'm kind of glad I dont need to "get in" with them...<br />Bullies should never be allowed to win, but remember they're mostly the creations of their parents..<br /><br />As long as your teach your kids right from wrong.<br />You cant do much about other peoples kids...<br /><br />Good luckAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-64450504879436645812012-03-30T06:51:27.809-07:002012-03-30T06:51:27.809-07:00It seriously makes my blood boil when bullies get ...It seriously makes my blood boil when bullies get away it. You did good, those other parents are just another type of bully at the end of the day & most of the time a bully is that way due the insecurities they have. I don't look forward to the school gates when my little one goes to school but I know that if another child did that to my child I would do the same thing..Kara's Randomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01106934234586568588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-5802321061026464032012-02-27T04:38:43.493-08:002012-02-27T04:38:43.493-08:00Definitely understand this, I would do the same fo...Definitely understand this, I would do the same for my little boy! I dont talk to any of the mums whilst Im dropping/picking him up either (nor do I want too!). Good on you!! :)<br /><br />Ashlie xTwoSistersOneObsessionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09995182847854260678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-2807992602162058082012-02-22T14:06:28.498-08:002012-02-22T14:06:28.498-08:00god i know exactly the childish behaviour you mean...god i know exactly the childish behaviour you mean and i dont mean from the kids. I hated the school gates and am sooo much happier my daughter can walk herself now. People can be so darn pathetic! You did right telling the child off, sounds like the dad thought the same. Bitches are bitches, sometimes i think they are just born that way cos as you say the ones at school who were vile are equally vile as adults and they breed more bitches! harsh, maybe . . .truth - probably!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-33783517697198649762012-02-21T13:53:08.599-08:002012-02-21T13:53:08.599-08:00The girls parents obviously don't tell her off...The girls parents obviously don't tell her off and that's why she was so upset when you did.... I would have done the same thing if it were my brother or sister (both much younger than me, I don't have kids for now ;) Some people never grow up, and their child is always in the right, even then they're doing something blatantly wrong :/IndigoOptimisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15968781693548038751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-52111494690817804082012-02-21T09:57:30.752-08:002012-02-21T09:57:30.752-08:00Will be funny to see that child pick on one of the...Will be funny to see that child pick on one of the "perfect mummys" kids coz thats wat will happen eventually and then they'll see what part of the playground they shud of stood on why there janglein abt big knickers and grey hair!! Haha Xgem4https://www.blogger.com/profile/07720783652201047152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-82405371558562073532012-02-21T09:35:54.209-08:002012-02-21T09:35:54.209-08:00Good on you! I'm a teacher and both me and my ...Good on you! I'm a teacher and both me and my sister were bullied as kids.With me it was niggly and on and off but I saw my sister suffer badly with it from the day she started primary, most of the way through school-they made her life hell even though my mum did everything she could.In the end it was only threatening the school and parents with legal action (and a solicitor's letter!) that made it stop. As a teacher, I think that any bullying whatsoever is unacceptable and I do my best to stop anything I see happening in school. However I do think their attitude and behaviour starts at home and that a lot of parents could do with taking more responsibility for their kids and bringing them up with more manners.You're right to be protective of your little girl and if the kid's parents had brought her up right in the first place she wouldn't be picking on people, she deserved it!xEmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11742467392795408884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-50332767027307045022012-02-21T08:43:05.105-08:002012-02-21T08:43:05.105-08:00I'm definitely the youngest mum, I wish there ...I'm definitely the youngest mum, I wish there was ONE parent there I could relate to.. but no! But as you say I am most certainly in the right so screw 'em xMissBudgetBeautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13070044327895385433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-24578957729559696702012-02-21T08:42:04.933-08:002012-02-21T08:42:04.933-08:00that kid came to my house once and when I asked he...that kid came to my house once and when I asked her to eat her dinner she hid under Ellas bed. Ella was reasoning with her, was hilarious! She came down to me n said 'she's like this at school' lol<br />Like you say they are 'past it' and jealous. They all look haggard and I'm sure it kills them to see me not looking begraggled (I make more effort now haha) when I have a newborn!MissBudgetBeautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13070044327895385433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-3622406827385525312012-02-21T08:39:42.650-08:002012-02-21T08:39:42.650-08:00oh no I would hate you to think it doesn't get...oh no I would hate you to think it doesn't get better! it really does! but those idiots that are mean to you will always be idiots and their lives will not get better. Feel sorry for them because you're nearly done with school but they have to be them forever!MissBudgetBeautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13070044327895385433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-42884972301986236362012-02-21T08:31:31.327-08:002012-02-21T08:31:31.327-08:00OMG the mummy mafia, it describes them exactly. It...OMG the mummy mafia, it describes them exactly. Its the same at my boys school, im one the youngest mums there and they all think they are above everyone in their little group. Thing is I dont get spoken to, ive never had a incident like you and I live in a crap area haha but they are not my kind of people so im happy to stand alone. At the end of the day you was standing up for your daughter, thats what any good mum would do. Nobody wants to discipline their kids no more, or teach them wrong from right. The same set of parents who get their 7 year olds contract blackberrys as a way of trying to 'outdo' everyone else... its insane. You can hold your head high at that school because you done nothing wrong x xlalalucy1000https://www.blogger.com/profile/11223677283004521564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-67541063133900951892012-02-21T08:26:29.521-08:002012-02-21T08:26:29.521-08:00Good on you!! If parents kept their kids under con...Good on you!! If parents kept their kids under control an taught them wats right and wats wrong then others wudnt av to speak to their spoilt brats in the first place! As a mummy to four i totally understand you. Iv been the " young mum" ppl look at im 27 now and my eldest is 11 so wen pll ask me i see their eyes roll bk the years to work out how old i was wen i had her, its slways the washed out,sad jelous has beens that are sorry they left leaving avin their kids til later in life, many a tome av i put them straight!! Im the same, rent my house and fir now am a stay home mum but do u know wat my kids r polite, kind, and respectful and wud not dream of makin another child sad, (( young mums rock)) he he,<br />There all ignoring you simply coz they r jelous of u and your beautiful children! Xgem4https://www.blogger.com/profile/07720783652201047152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1950710392389185357.post-14543551867043999982012-02-21T07:57:48.783-08:002012-02-21T07:57:48.783-08:00When I once got picked on at school my dad did the...When I once got picked on at school my dad did the exact same thing that you did, told the bully what he could do with his insults, and he too got the cold shoulder... I wouldn't worry as people like that are NOT worth knowing anyway, although I understand how frustrating it is to be ignored! P.S. I'm in Year 11 now, just like you in the in-between group, and I get hassle too. Unfortunatley it doesn't seem to get much better in adulthood so it seems!Thomasnoreply@blogger.com